You Are The Dream Girl

03/09/25

You Are The Dream Girl Video. Link Attached to Image.

Dear College Girl, have you ever thought you could be the dream girl you always wanted to be?

During a season of sophomore life, I wondered why things were not kicking off the way I expected them to. Thoughts like, “Why is this panning out for me the way I need it to?!” “They just don’t see what I see,” or “What is it I am missing?” flew across my mind. Never in my 21 years of living had I encountered these emotions. It all felt so new to me. If anything, I am always so understanding of divine timing and order. This time was a struggle.

Then it all clicked! I was operating as if I was at the bottom when I was really at the top. High vibrations do not negotiate with low vibrations. Therefore, if I am atop, why would my higher self allow me to stoop low? My thinking and desires were so low which is why the things I wanted had never come to fruition. Sometimes, the people and materials we seek are not only not meant for us, but not things we should desire. We can’t expect to attract what we don’t match.

This is done through belief. We know that it is true that belief allows us to go after our dreams and take the steps necessary to reach our goals. When we do not believe, we do nthing. Being in a state of nothingness means we are settling for the bare minimum. Being in a state of nothingness means you will indeed get nothing done. How can you expect to acquire what you see to not exist in your reality? How can you expect to have the things you want if you believe they can only come once you have leveled up? And let’s say you have leveled up, how will you recognize you are in the appropriate space? 

Ladies, it’s time for us to recognize that we deserve better. We owe it to ourselves to know we are who we always wanted to be. If you no longer gossip, if you stopped rushing your morning routine, if you pray more often now if you no longer associate with people who do not respect your boundaries, what makes you think you should not be rewarded for your progress? You owe it to yourself to know you are even one step closer to being the dream girl you aspired to be.

How do you expect to be treated like the dream girl if you are not acting like the dream girl? If you believe that you are the prize, why do you still walk like you are trying to prove you are the prize? The prize is known and does not have to force a sense of knowing to others. For example, when you see a gift with a bow on it, you know to leave it as decorated right? If you take the bow off, it definitely will look like you touched an ornament that did not belong to you. The same thing applies to you. When you are firm in your boundaries, you participate in activities that keep you glowing, and you do not tolerate inconsistency, those are actions and operations of a college girl who has reached her dream threshold.

So college girl, remember that you have achieved more than you know. You are no longer easy to be manipulated. You are no longer living in survival mode to achieve the bare minimum. Last but not least, you are the dream girl you always wanted to be. You are the dream girl.

Sincerely, 

Pitra